{"id":6024,"date":"2025-05-19T19:34:19","date_gmt":"2025-05-19T19:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/?p=6024"},"modified":"2025-05-19T19:34:19","modified_gmt":"2025-05-19T19:34:19","slug":"who-am-i-what-do-i-really-want-is-it-even-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/2025\/05\/19\/who-am-i-what-do-i-really-want-is-it-even-real\/","title":{"rendered":"Who am I?  What do I really want?  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You notice how perfect everything is.\u00a0 The plants are all perfectly chosen and are all in just the right place.\u00a0 You are in the midst of beauty and calm.\u00a0 There is a gentle breeze.\u00a0 You enjoy the aromas of the plants and flowers.<\/p>\n<p>You see a small cleared space in this garden where there is an inviting chair\u00a0 waiting for\u00a0 you to enjoy.\u00a0 The cushions seem to call out to you.\u00a0 You approach the chair and\u00a0 get comfortable in it.<\/p>\n<p>Sitting in the chair, you notice a pathway leading to the edge of the garden.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, you know that this is a path you are invited to take.<\/p>\n<p>As you walk on the path, you come to a mirror hanging on a branch of a large, beautiful tree.<\/p>\n<p>You look in the mirror and see your own reflection.\u00a0 You feel, as you see yourself in the mirror, connected to your past &#8211; your present &#8211; your future.<\/p>\n<p>You see yourself as loving and knowing.\u00a0 The answers too all your questions are in your heart.<\/p>\n<p>You take a moment now to feel your connection with all there is.\u00a0 This feeling blends with the air and atmosphere in the garden.<\/p>\n<p>You begin to realize that this moment is blending all you know with a newness.\u00a0 You feel fresh &#8211; renewed &#8211; and bright.<\/p>\n<p>This garden is helping you connect to all you know as you breathe deeply &#8211; exhaling and inhaling.<\/p>\n<p>The feeling is freeing &#8211; supporting &#8211; knowing.<\/p>\n<p>You know now that it is time for you to return to your day.\u00a0 You can return to this place any time you want. or need refreshing.<\/p>\n<p>Now &#8211; after a moment &#8211; you slowly move your muscles, open your eyes, and continue on with your day.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/tree-e14044867886231.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-798\" src=\"https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/tree-e14044867886231-300x197.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"197\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/tree-e14044867886231-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/tree-e14044867886231-1024x672.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/tree-e14044867886231.jpg 1784w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Thank you for reading this article and meditation.<\/p>\n<p>Find out more about Thurman at www.ThurmanGreco.com<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/BTflyflowerTG.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4568\" src=\"https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/BTflyflowerTG-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/BTflyflowerTG-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/reflexologyforthespirit.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/BTflyflowerTG.jpg 379w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Please share this article with your friends and relatives.\u00a0 Share it with your preferred social media network.<\/p>\n<p>THANKS<\/p>\n<p>Thurman Greco<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the question is this:\u00a0 &#8220;Who are you in this experience you call your life?&#8221; With all the choices available, how can you turn imagination into action? 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